tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1297608426606374145.post3188085095930191146..comments2023-06-20T06:41:56.905-05:00Comments on Caroline Loves You Even More: hind sightcarolinelovesyoumorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07949147947707046081noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1297608426606374145.post-43676817983390877512008-06-26T16:25:00.000-05:002008-06-26T16:25:00.000-05:00It is not all your fault. Why would it be? Becau...It is not all your fault. Why would it be? Because you didn't always do and say everything the right way? That's the whole thing about relationships- it's not about never fucking up. It's about how well people can work together to handle the fuck ups. <BR/><BR/>So, even if you're the only one in the relationship who ever did anything wrong (and that's impossible), but even if you were... then part would still be his fault for failing to work through it with you. I mean , that's what real love is, isn't it? A sort of "deal" that you're going to be there even when problems come up (since they inevitably will)? <BR/><BR/>I mean, you're sitting there worrying, "Will I ever be good for a relationship?" HE SHOULD BE WONDERING THE SAME! What good is he for a relationship, if he holds back or fails to work through issues? <BR/><BR/>I don't know him that well, and I don't mean to accuse. These are just general ideas coming to mind about relationships. <BR/><BR/>I don't believe one's personal flaws alone are enough to destroy a relationship. There are multiple factors and subfactors coming into a relationship from all angles that affect how things unfold. <BR/><BR/>But because that's all too difficult (if not impossible) to dissect and explain, and because we have to do something with all that anger, we reach for the nearest, simplest thing to blame. Ourselves. The other person. But there is really no one thing to pinpoint that bears the entire burden.Juniperrrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14706228830059427632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1297608426606374145.post-86918599600429857302008-06-13T08:35:00.000-05:002008-06-13T08:35:00.000-05:00:)I saw Lynn, and we discussed a slumber party.:)<BR/><BR/>I saw Lynn, and we discussed a slumber party.Vanessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10932817551315932275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1297608426606374145.post-49349745826220128792008-06-12T10:57:00.000-05:002008-06-12T10:57:00.000-05:00He knew. He had to. And you have to know he knew...He knew. He had to. And you have to know he knew. Hind sight . . .sunshine award winnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10724230266703869322noreply@blogger.com